H has spoken to D21. He is not looking forward to the festive season without us. He has decided to visit christmas morning and then go back to OW and her sister for lunch. Not looking forward to that as we are going to my parents for ours. D21 asked him how OW was and he said 'alright' but sounded very down and miserable. Maybe the tarnish is coming off her now, particularly as she is changing her job for less pay. Looks like H will need more money from his business to support her. How sad that he is looking for happinesss and running from old age when she is making him unhappy and broke and he now looks older than his years.