What's done is done. It's not helpful to have her see your resources for working on yourself and the M, be it books, this forum etc.. Try to avoid it in future as best you can is my suggestion.
In her mind, they're nothing but manuals to help you manipulate her, at best.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
