Christmas Mistake?

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I wouldn't go to MC at this point in time. Its just a waste of money and will be used and excuse by her later. i.e. "You see, I tried... I did try... but things didn't work out... blah blah blah..."

Don't give her ammunition. She wants out and wants her space... then give it to her in spades.

- Fly to the edge of the universe and enter a black hole. (i.e. your only communication with her should be about your son and only your son.
- Get a freakin' life. Become a party animal. Have FUN, FUN, FUN.
- Get her to take care of your son when you think its most inconvenient for her.
- Communicate indirectly (via her informants) that you're moving on and having a ball.
- Pull the rug out from under her feet.
---- Cut off all the financial benefits she enjoys from you.
---- Cut off all emotional benefits she gets from you (supportive, patient, listening, compassion etc)

LISTEN to this! great advice