I am almost through all the books. Last night and this morning were good. Things seemed civil. I had a plumber come and fix our master bathroom faucet. While I was talking with him my wife went to my room and found my all my books hidden under my bed. When I went in the room she was on my bed going though them all.
Yesterday she asked me what I did. I told her that I did some cleaning then took the kids to do their stuff.. Which was partially true. The rest of the time I read. As she sat there on my bed with one of the books in her hand, she told me "I lied and I was dishonest". I ignored her comment and told her that I was going out for a run and would be back in 30 minutes so she could go out on her bike ride. That was it.
I suppose she sees some change and is wondering what I am reading or doing. This comment appeared to be a test, because the book she was holding was "Hold on to your NUTs". I didn't argue or defend myself. After that she seemed quiet, she even left her phone home when she went out on her ride.
I didn't want her to find the books I thought I hid them well, but she did and now she is on to me. Do you think this is good? Do women want to see a guy do all he can to change, even if he has to read a manual?
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
