Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

So, (x)W and I went Christmas shoppin galst night. What a disaster (shopping wise). Started off by stopping at "my" place to go over the sale papers. (x)W and my cousin seemed to get along fairly well. My cousin even gave her a coat she had in her closet that reminded her of (x)W, ironically so, (x)W at one point had one exactly like it.

Really didn't get much shopping done at all. (x)W did ok for getting started, but I'm still waaaay behind.

After running around until 10:30pm we finally opted to call it quits and went out for dinner. It was nice. Lots of regular daily routine talk. She still ahs that glow, that's a good sign.

Bad signs, or maybe I'm just thinking too much. (x)W's phone never made a peep all night. That's highly abnormal. As I've said before, I've noticed she all the sudden needs to use the restroom quite frequently. I called her out on it when she returned from the washroom for like the 3rd time at the resteraunt and asked if she had any more "crazy" calls. She asked 'what do you mean', I just looked at her and said "c'mon (x)W, I find it very hard to believe you haven't gotten one call all night long".

She did say that OM still is contact, she keeps telling him to leave her alone, but this fish ain't fully biting the line. I don't think there's anything more behind the scenes to it, but then again, I WAS wrong before. I'm working her today on this issue, it has to get closed.

When we were done shopping I took her back by "her" place and she was cold, so she laid down in her comforter for to warm up. Heh, then she said "this isn't working, come here". Let's just say, there is a serious (good) tension mounting. We're in a 'joking' discussion of that today.

While shopping and expecially over dinner, we discussed our house and the current living arrangements for all. A lot to be figured out there. It clearly seems we both want to co-habitate. But, I just simply refuse to step foot in that house, let alone live in it ever again. We'd have to make some serious changes in order for that to work.

But, given the uncertanties yet to be cleared up about OM, that's a good thing in disguse.

So, still moving forward, making progress, and not looking back. Just still 'that' issue that I need to start driving home with her that needs to be resolved completely.