Do you think your H has MLC? Definatly some weird thoughts going on there. Not knowing what he wants.
Look back honestly and what got you two to the point of him saying he wanted to stay married? And more importantly what happened to make him now change?
Are there conversations you two have had that spark a reaction with him? Pushing his buttons? Pursuing? '
Just throwing things out there.
One other thing, if you do file for an extension, I would tell him before he gets it. There is nothing worse than going to the mailbox and finding something like that. It doesn't build trust in his mind. Why wouldn't she tell me? etc. Then he is just really PO'd and that would not help at all.
