Reading your first post in this thread really opens my eyes to what my STBXW must have endured during our 9 years together.....I don't think I was as withdrawn as your STBXH, but I see a lot of similarities. It breaks my heart knowing that I am/was responsible for this.
Anyways, good luck in court today....and Happy Holidays!
Me 44/W 32 S1 M8 Bomb 9/25/09 Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)