feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

Yesterday he came home and we went to dinner and shopping. We had some burrs and sushi at this cool place we go to in the mall. We sat there and talked. He was in a good mood but we ended up talking for just a couple mins bout R. He was the one who brought it up.

Typical "I'm not happy" stuff and how he was "trying." When we were done he says, "that was a fun dinner huh?" (i didn't think so lol) cuz of the unhappy speech. We parted ways to shop for each other and he stopped to kiss me and I said, ILY and he looked at me...I said, "uh you aren't gonna say it back?" (Luv knows this was a no no!) but it felt ok at the time. He responds, "I'll always love you."

I do have to tell you. He does threaten me by saying stuff like "you better watch yourself" (very insulting to me) or he'll say, "you be nice or that's it for you." I find these threats very hurtful and demeaning.

We came home and sat down on the couch and our usual chat for a bit before bed. I do have to say he's been more communicative these last couple days. I don't know guys...what should I do now? Should I start avoiding him and do my own thing? I want him to feel a sense of loss...like I do. He has completely taken me for granted!

He's the kind that if I ignore him he gets very offended. How do I detach when he seems to be opening up a little more? HELP