That is exactly what happened this last time we went to hash out the final legalities....he came a week later and said he wanted to be married. The finality did wake him for a bit and he pursued.
Now we are back to square one where is doesn't love me. I'm afraid to grant him the divorce because he won't come back. He'll quickly jump in with someone else and fill the void I left.
You are right though this extension will make him mad but maybe he'll get so fired up he'll pay my attorney the majority of the remaining costs to get it over with instead of directing his anger at me. I want the extension because I think he'll come around AGAIN.
Your W came around before you guys finalized. My h maintains that even if he wanted to come back we have nothing going for us but sex and money. Regular sex and saving money. He acts like we were never friends or did anything together. It's hurtful to say the least.
I want to hang on but you are right if it only serves to make him mad...what is the point in that? It won't bring us closer. It's a gamble to do it and see what his reaction is....he may not get mad maybe he'll try again. I guess in this situation I can only go with what I want since that is what I know for sure.
