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but when he continued to ignore the boys going to the extent of not even caring if their homework was done (he said well don't go to the school meeting and stay home to help the boys! I said well next time can you go to the meeting he said no! Pretty much you do all of this and let me be on the sofa watching TV)..



Are you sure you're name married to Ray Ramano (Everybody Loves Raymond)?

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that I'm fat, that I don't have a flat stomach, that my hair is too short, that I don't want to go out and get drunk, etc! It's always something with him. He says I just need to get over it when I get mad about stuff like this. He doesn't apologize when I talk to him about it...



Or maybe my H? What is it with the getting drunk thing? My H likes to drink and I don't, one or two is fine, but that's not enough for H and I'm supposed to join him, I don't think so one of has to drive. My H doesn't care what he says either and then said the same thing your H does "get over it" he also calls me names, a**h***, idiot, stupid. Well a few weeks ago he did that and I told him to leave the house, he said I'll come here whenever I feel like it, and I said "not if you're going to call me names you're not" This was the first time I ever stood up to him about his name calling and I was serious...well I think it sent his head spinning. If you have time look at my thread it's pretty much all in there.

Cathy