Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

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Worrying about cake eating leads to conversations about boundaries. Talks about boundaries will not work.

Now....do not pre-plan and ASK him if he can babysit. Just tell him you'll be back in a couple of hours. And then do that. Whereveryo yuou go .....LAUGH. LAUGH YOUR ARSE OFF.

So, don't discuss boundaries--just set them? Is this what you mean?

exactly
you don't really have an audience when you're talking anyway