I believe it to be true. They are fake so they find another fake in hopes that they will make something real. It does not work that way.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
not like the original and usually 10 x worse when you are dealing with OW who are usually much younger and many of them were pulled to sucessfull H and after a free meal ticket it cant work was it really love and will it work after the initail stages of lust? it is doubtfull but I wish xh and ow the best hopefully xh will find God and follow the path I pray for him and that he will one day be a good father again Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Same here peace. I wish mine would be a good father again. Our children deserve that much.
Well my ex is at it again. Yesterday I returned an email to ex asking him not to email me at work anymore. It is too much of a distraction and he is always trying to just upset me and push my buttons. I have decided to set this as one of my boundaries. If it is regarding the kids, then he can text me via phone. Other than that, there is no real need for him to contact me.
I was going to take my daughter to see Santa this morning. He had agreed to this previously. He texted me this morning that she would not be going because something suddenly came up.
Here we go.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, He is punishing you for your email advising him not to post to you at work. He's acting like a spoiled two year old.
I'm very sorry that he's taking it out on your little one. Is there any way that you can take her? I really would love to ring your xh's chimes over this.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thanks everyone, ridiculous isn't it. He never use to be such a game player, but now....
Anyway, my daughter comes home tomorrow and I will take her to the mall to see Santa.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I am actually glad you get to take her to see Santa. it is something precious and special and he is a puke right now... wish he would come out of his funk for your kids too. they are so stinkin' self-centered..
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
ACJ, I can relate to that. My ex is great with OW's kid, he does everything with him and provides well for him.
That alone makes me want to puke.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I think we are all in puking mode right now T. Serious. I personally really want to just move on from him but it is close to impossible... my freakin' heart is still linked. DUMB! But it is..
How is your son? How did his first semester of college go? How about #2 what is she doing with herself? And little one... is she excited for Christmas?
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
