Thank you! I just need to get off this roller coaster but it's hard when my h gets me back on with his "I want to stay married" ride!

I'm going to detach again and see what happens. S**t will hit the fan though when he gets notice of the extension. He'll be livid!

Right now I'm choosing to foot the bill because if the divorce does end up going through I'll get the house and all our equity. I'd like to have a house for the kids and I once this is over. Whether my h lives with us or not remains to be seen.