Life in Limboland is completely dependent on your perspective and your attitude.
Several months ago I thought I could get out of Limboland and was trying desperately to do so. Limboland was making me miserable.
Now I have decided that I am going to stay where I am (due to MIL's sitch) and just enjoy life. Interestingly enough, once I DECIDED that I was staying FOR MY OWN REASONS, I stopped feeling unhappy and desperate to get out.
Tomorrow she may go or she may stay. I may go or I may stay.
That's something to deal with tomorrow.
Today it just doesn't matter.
Life is good!
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.