Shouldn't have tipped my hand so quickly. W still doesn't know what I know, but she's going to be seeing SFIL today as he and W's mom pass through town. I've asked SFIL not to mention our conversation, but I doubt that W's mom will stay quiet about it. Going to try to bump up D lawyer visit to this Thursday, although he won't be able to file until next week.
I still don't want a divorce, but I know that's just my heart still talking, not my head. I know what the right thing to do is now, and that's protecting myself and S7. I'll be starting a new thread in the other forum today.
I know that I can do this knowing that I tried everything I could, but I can't remain married to a serial adulterer. I'll eventually forgive, but will never forget the things she has done to destroy this family.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch
