Sweetheart, can't you block this idiot from your email? Please? It will drive her round the bend when her message to you bounces back.

I know you want info on what your h is doing, I do too, but it only hurts more and keeps us from healing. I identify with you a lot. Both you and I are childless, had a previous marriage, and were dumped around the same time. My ex's OW (single mom with two teenagers) got pregnant maybe 7 months into their A and are now finally married.

Twisting the knife? No, I never wanted kids of my own and I would feel so trapped if I were my xh. Ewww!

Our D was final a year ago and I know that it's time to just move on and start dating. Wa-a-a-ay past the time.

I never was one to buy into the theory of so-called "soul mates." I believe there are some nice men out there who will not treat us this way, and that we could have a satisfying relationship with any number of them.

I pray that we each find someone wonderful. And we won't need to send these ridiculous mass emails to "convince" everyone how "happy" we are.

So, consider changing your email addy, ok? I did.

Last edited by Kimmie Lee; 12/22/09 08:00 AM.