Sweetheart, can't you block this idiot from your email? Please? It will drive her round the bend when her message to you bounces back.
I know you want info on what your h is doing, I do too, but it only hurts more and keeps us from healing. I identify with you a lot. Both you and I are childless, had a previous marriage, and were dumped around the same time. My ex's OW (single mom with two teenagers) got pregnant maybe 7 months into their A and are now finally married.
Twisting the knife? No, I never wanted kids of my own and I would feel so trapped if I were my xh. Ewww!
Our D was final a year ago and I know that it's time to just move on and start dating. Wa-a-a-ay past the time.
I never was one to buy into the theory of so-called "soul mates." I believe there are some nice men out there who will not treat us this way, and that we could have a satisfying relationship with any number of them.
I pray that we each find someone wonderful. And we won't need to send these ridiculous mass emails to "convince" everyone how "happy" we are.