I am so sorry that this is hapening, this must ne one of the worst twist on that blasted roller coaster. All i can say with I agree with Deb and T2.
I like letting him get his own attorney to do it all, why should be expect you to foot it all with yours. His choice, his cost. He is confused, feelings DO NOT change like that overnight. Remember he basics, dont let him drag you into fights and do what you can to look after yourself.
My thougts are with you
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
