I may have to eventually go after my H's career. But I need it to be a last resort. I have no job right now. Everything is sort of in limbo-land until I get moved to AZ. And I have a felony on my record. I'm sometimes terrified I'll never get a job again. I stole money from an employer. I own it, I committed a crime, I went to jail, I paid my debt. Yeah, pretty much never going to get a job again.
But I intend to try once I get moved. If I can get my own income and a little bit of independence I will be more confident about going the military discipline route.
At the moment he hates the military. He went in when I got pregnant with our oldest. And we can't really afford to have him be an idiot and screw that all up. We need the insurance...and paying bills is sort of nice too.
Kimmie, the thing is, the A clouds everything. I should know.
His sons are great - they're fun to play with and take care of...when it's convenient to him. But the A is the main focus of his life right now. Anything that doesn't fit his little "let's-play-pretend" life has to be shoved to the back of his mind.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
I stole money from an employer. I own it, I committed a crime, I went to jail, I paid my debt. Yeah, pretty much never going to get a job again.
We need the insurance...and paying bills is sort of nice too.
