I'm not in the DB FB group, but you're more than welcome to gmail me (hint, hint) if you want to talk off the boards.
Sorry, I've been busy doing Christmas cards all day (yes, I know it's the 21st!) and this is the first time I've been able to check the boards. But now it's bed time and BF is calling. I'll check back in with you tomorrow.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g