I second R2C - how many marriages has this therapist saved? There's no drama and anger coming from your end, just a statement of rights and due respect. There's a difference between selfish and self-respect. If you're going to be ruled by fear of reactions and consequences over which you have no control or responsibility, you might as well roll over and resume the begging / pleading / crying route. Fine, it's christmas - Set the date.
Oh and I'm glad Robx didn't use a different word play and type "Try-Appendage". Even as a LRT , 180, or whatever tactic, it could have been a mite too much to handle .
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.