He says for me not to do it! I say well I'll submit a dismissal and he can pay for HIS divorce and he becomes livid...says he is not spending the money on it! He says he'll pay my attorney to finish the job though...huh?
He says that he sees no point in extending since I will never change. And that my expectations are too high. I said I can lower them but he says it won't work because I have a bar of how low I'm willing to go and that even if I lower for a month that it will go back up and I'll be demanding again! I ask well what is the problem with squeezing my hand back when I squeeze yours, and returning my hugs instead of letting your arms hang limply at your side and maybe once a week saying ILY...can you do that? He says he sees no point now since he's done.
My heart says to extend but my mind sees the reality that he'll never get us off this roller coaster as long as he doesn't get help.
