It's very liberating. We had gotten to the point where things were getting horribly ugly. I asked him for a truce yesterday, and spent most of today talking to him about how to handle our kids. I like the idea of co-parenting with him more than I like the idea of being married to him. Things could change down the road, but I'm not going to obsess on it. Right now, I feel like I need to live my life.
