Yes, I can extend the D for a period of months I specify. But should I if he's so adamant that it's over? He's been here before except this time he maintains that he FEELS sure its over. I know I don't want the divorce but holding out when the other is not in love with you seems pointless.
Should I extend do you think? My other friends maintain that he will change his mind but that it won't last as long as he doesn't admit he needs counseling or that he contributed to the demise of the marriage. Yeah, he'll change his mind but it won't last.