Hello! Our marriages are similar in a lot of ways, except for the infidelity (I hope!). The "living for the kids" is us. Two boys in club soccer, and a D18 that is a handful!
It was hard to read how awful your wife is to you, when you're really making an honest effort. My H is sarcastic, too... He is/was KING SNARK. I'm learning to deal with that in a better way, but it is NOT attractive!
I agree w/the master bedroom, and I have to agree w/Rob (not on his appendages! LoL) on his approach w/the actions that dn't feel "right" in this situation. She has lost respect for you. Get it back!
You can fix so many other people. Now fix yourself, and be you again. Don't let her determine your value.
Good Luck.
PS - TWO D13's! Oy! Second semester freshman year, you WILL have your hands full, from there on out!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
