I just read through all of this. Yeah, our situations are similar. I can see myself making the same passive aggressive comments you did. I let my wife go on bike training rides together for a number of years with another married guy. They texted each other about some houswives show. Wimpish dude, I wasn't threatened at all. After her affair, I put a stop to all of it and she got pissed. I was too nice before.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
