When my W first dropped the Bomb and said she wanted to separate, I told her that I would leave. I quickly realized the mistake and never mentioned it again. Later she said that I had told her that I would leave and didn't and she said that I didn't follow through as usual. I told her that she was the one that wants to separate and that she was the one that had to make it happen. She was shocked by this, however, I became empowered for the first time since the Bomb.
I understand about waiting until after the holidays but get yourself back into your master bedroom ASAP!
