I finally got the opportunity to test out my H's theory on not being the jealous type.

He still insists he doesn't care if I date, he just cares about the impact on the kids from seeing it. So basically, it the kids don't see it, he's okay with it.

He spoke with all the kids tonight. That was nice. It took a while, but I finally talked them into it. I really think they need to find their way back to each other, so it might not have been good dbing, but it felt right for me. I felt bad for H. He sounded like he was about to cry when he hung up.