What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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I will set a date for sure. Wonderful, great ideas. I am going to have it all planned out and know in advance how I will react to every scenerio. I just finished reading one of the books recommended.. " Hold on to your N.U.T. s" It was a quick read with some great tips. Moving on to " Boundaries" now.

Wonderful, you are right. She doesn't have a clue what I am reading and the private room is pretty nice.