Very good idea Sandi.....I see what you are saying....I tend to plan things out too much....I think thing s should be a certain way by a certain time.....My ex is so back and forth about things to think things will work out anytime soon....I want that, but I don't know how long I can wait.....I will join you in your resolution.....It is a clean slate and I will look at it as that.....I will do my best, and when I am done, that will be it.....No time table, just living my life and seeing what happens...