my thought behind not giving all these details is just the fact of speaking about him badly to other people. I think the more you speak badly of him to others the harder things will be. I also think people gain more respect by not talking badly about people. but if you do, it can be ok depending on how you do it. I think it would be best to give a couple facts, but to eliminate details and not just talk about everything.
it's not really about him being mad at you, although that will be a result, but speaking as a christian, I think you are best to keep it as vague as possible and as limited as possible. and because she is so crazy right now, she could take anything you say to the extreme.
also, it might be best to just ignore it because if she's already texting you THIS much..goodness, if you give her some of what she wants, I wonder how much she will continue to try to talk to you and get info. She's desperate too.
what fun you get to deal with!
hey, and your probably going to need to really keep control of yourself, I imagine this is going to cause some new anxiety and anger or guilt or whatever emotion your exh has due to this MGF contact. He is obviously reverting a bit, not showing up, so I would continue to be calm and don't let his actions affect your emotions, just be consistent and calm and I would avoid any txt wars.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
