another positive from a few days ago I forgot - she started reading Michele's book "how to get through to the man you love" - it has a section that compares it to training your puppy so she calles it her puppy training book.
Just talked w/ ex and she is still feeling bad - running a slight fever - said she is going to Dr again today - said she could not stop crying but that it was not my fault.
Before this last weekend (really before Dinner Thursday night) she said she could not cry to let it all go so maybe it is good that she is finally crying to let all go. I told her I had a hug for her whenever she wanted it. I am concerned about the slight fever though but she has been to the Dr. several times about it - Dr. said one type of bug going around takes a full two months to run its course. When she startes to feel better physically things might get better.