Newmama, I think you are shouldering a lot of unfair blame for the A. I totally agree with ravenly... WAH made the choice to have the A--he crossed that line. You do seem like such a wonderful person. I see how hard you are trying. That's a lot of love!!
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10