Well, all the good time together is making her think! And that's good. But don't ASSume like I do! LOL
Give her space, keep being her friend! You may look at this as not so good, but I don't see it that way! She enjoyed the weekend, she missed you after her trip. You have both been making lots of steps! There are a lot of good things happening, hence her depression. She probably wasn't expecting to fall for you or love you! And I believe that is why she is so confused. I would say not to back off, but to keep doing what you have been doing. Give her a couple days and then call and see how she is.
When I backed to far off, I almost lost my H again. So hang in there, I see all of this as good steps!
