No, don't contact her. She wanted to be away from you. Don't forget that she made that choice. Don't you think to say "happy" anniversary would be inappropriate?
If she calls you and says something about the anniversary, then you can say, "Oh, that's right.....it is our WA". Don't add anything else b/c you can count on it leading to a R talk.
It seems to be a problem for all the LBH's, but that is how I see it from the WAW view point.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
