Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I need to clarify that I didn't just sit on my butt while he did everything...I did get better at beating him to the dishes laundry and I always cleaned the toilets although I think men should since they are more messy! ;-) But I slacked on mopping and vacuuming and definitely cooking/bills.

I guess I just want to say I KNOW I had my faults and definitely needed to improve. But he wasn't perfect and I didn't cheat! I have tight boundaries in the real world. Guess he didn't.