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Your spot on here. Men tend to think we all have to look like Brad Pitt in order to be a success.

It would be interesting to get some of the women on here to comment on your post. I wouldn't be surprised if they echoed you thoughts.


Well....since you brought it up. smile Have you ever seen a beautiful woman on the arm of an ugly man? Bet you have, and your probably wondered how in the world he got a girl like that to go out with him.


I don't know at the threads I've read from LBH's who say they don't know what his WAW sees in the OM b/c he is a slob, ugly, or whatever. The good looks are simply a "plus" but seldom play into the A of a WAW. If he looked like Brad Pitt, he probably wouldn't be going after a M woman.....but who knows what his moral character might be. It may be different things to different women, but I tend to think the OM usually fulfills an emotional need the WAW has.

I don't want to be unfair to any of the LBH's but I'll say that in "most" threads, the H will admit that there were some problems before he found out about another man being involved. Sometimes it's just the fact that life got the better of the couple and they weren't spending enough time together. Don't mean the LBH was a bad H, but some other guy stepped up and started feeding her whatever it was she needed. And....many times the OM is so opposite from the LBH.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!