Ran into WAS and OW

[Arwen_in_NJ]

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Thanks for the reply. I am just going with the flow for now. I do not initiate contact (unless it's something very important), but when she does, I make sure that I am pleasant and friendly, encouraging and supportive. I want her to feel safe with me when the A starts to fall apart.

P, have you seen the Hero's Spouse website at http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com? There is a lot of good info there.

In your thread you had asked me if I am on the book of faces. I am. How do I find you? I do not want to post my real name here.