Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Alright Gentlemen -

Give me your best shot (but be nice please) on this boundary setting email -

Remember as Coach stated I have to play hardball now so I don't want to come across as weak. smile
Not using boundary-setting wording, here, but my take:
1)While they are minors and in my care, they would not be going to stay with H and OW, ever.
2)I would insist he see them as a "package deal" or not at all, for now. Until I'm satisfied that they are receiving equal attention from their father and one is no longer being purposefully slighted and hurt. Period.
3)No discussions about visiting are to be had with S without discussing with me first.

Oh, my. I was supposed to help, but I think I just gave you two more to write, instead. whistle

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac