I know you are right about the OW, but it literally plagues my mind ALL day. I know that it is physical as well, why else would he be spending the night with her so frequently. Please, don't think I'm fooling myself into thinking he will be home tomorrow, but is it possible that he is being nice to me despite the rage he has had and still wants a divorce? I feel like sometimes he is content being with this woman and having me as a friend and is walking through life whistling dixie! Thanks for the hugs and the response. I'm so confused and new at this, that my head is spinning and fortunately I have found this site and books within months of the bomb drop as opposed to later!
