Well crap - I was looking for a consequence but don't want to come across as controlling...Keeping them from his place would be ideal but I don't want to be a harsh b***h about it either...I want to be firm yet loving.
How about...
If you do ___decide to go through with seeing the older S and not the younger S________________________________________.
Then I will ___have to refrain from letting them come to your house however you will still be able to see them here at my house or in a public place.______________________________ (consequence).
Originally Posted By: kara
About the food stamps...this is just another thing you will be able to look BACK on and note how far you have come. One day YOU may be helping someone and telling them that you made it!
The FS still make me queasy but I know it is for my boys so for them I would sell a body part and as I keep telling myself "This is temporary"
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
