Last night, my reliable informant came over and chatted with me for about 2 hours. The FULL truth came out that W has been sexually involved with quite a few other men for over 2.5 years.
I haven't read your sitch, but have YOU been sexually active with the W within the last 2.5 years? If so, get yourself to a doctor, and get tested for STD's- ALL OF THEM.
You don't know how many men she's been with, whether any of them are bisexual or drug users, whether she's had safe sex... you get the picture. Sorry to be so blunt.
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
