MWG, You are going to have to start being a little more objective about what others suggest to you on here. I am sorry about your son, if he has in fact used since he has been out, he has a much worse problem than you are aware of. For the boy's sake, if he is using, he needs some time in jail..... As for your H..... He's not going to change, sorry to be so negative, but he is there to stay. The only way he would try to come back is if he were thrown out.... It really is now about you and your girls, and for God's sake, focus on them! You have spent way too much time over the last 4 or 5 years on your H and son. Take your girls and move on.
Just a minute here, please.
What is going on about my H???? Me and the kids have been functioning without him and we have not attempted to invite him over for anything. He is on his own. What do I have to do with him now???? NOTHING. We are allowing him to have what he wanted--to be over there and free of us and us free from him.
Enough said.
As for my s--court went well as did everything else.
And please, God can move mountains and can work outcomes that far exceed a human being trying to work it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
