I feel __hurt & angry___________________________. Good
When you __choose to see one of our sons' and not the other___________________________________ (Behavior). Good
If you do ___decide to go through with seeing the older S and not the younger S________________________________________.
Then I will ___ban them both from your house and you will only see them here at my house or in a public place.______________________________ (consequence). Ban is too harsh and sounds controlling. As their Father both the boys need to spend time with you. Letting the boys around your mistress is disrespectful to them, me and reflects poorly on you as a man and Father. If you won't agree to to keeping them away from her then I cannot condone them spending time with you.
If you continue to __pick one over the other_______________ then the next step will be _____custody arrangements filed in court__________________ (major consequence). Nice
You have to play hardball now. Can you handle it?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.