Jeff, you need to find a date to take out golfing. But then again, would you have the concentration to make the shots over the lake with a nice lady watching you tee off?
Kerry.... I think my concentration might be shot in those circumstances! But it's a chance I am willing to take!
I love the analogy, it really spoke to me actually. I'm sorry s11 is under the weather, I hope he gets better soon. I also think you have done a really good job on still working with wife and her including you in family trips. I know that it wasn't an acrimonious divorce but kudos to you Jeff. It can only be good for the kids.
Michelle, I don't know that XW is missing the support I gave her, though it could be. I have a feeling that it was a lot more clear to me that I got the blame for a lot of things than it was to her! I just hope that she manages to avoid putting it on the kids.
Oh, XW's mom posted this on FB: jeff, u still r a family member whether u like it or not.
I think when things settle, you will probably feel robbed of some years of your life. When we are in the hole, we kind of get used to it. When we get out, the hole seems even darker and worse. On the other hand, your Xw will be reminded of all the things she took fro granted. And you can be sure of that. K
Kalni, I am sure that I will feel that I was "robbed" of some years, but I decided a while ago that I refuse to have any regrets. I made choices that were the right choices for me, at the time, and while I may learn from them, I am not going to regret them. I am going to try to make the years ahead even better, though!
Last edited by Virtually_Handsome; 12/21/0910:01 PM.
jeez Jeff, i was about to write that i envy you playing goldf in December in 70 degree weather and hitting a 460 yard par % in two....but now....I agree with Kerryy. You need to find a female golf partner!!!
