As a woman I look at the whole package, not just the looks...
My H isn't a Brad Pitt lookalike...
He is shorter then me, is going gray etc...
However as the whole package, he was "it"...
He was kind, considerate, loving, a wonderful friend to all who he encountered, had great manners and could always (no matter what) make me smile (Now I just want to vomit but that is besides the point)...
He made me feel like I was the only one who ever mattered in the world no matter what we were doing or where we were at.
That is what made him attractive to me - Not his face - Him as a whole.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~