Much of what you said resonates quite a bit with me...I am growing very resentful of the constant cold shoulder treatment and absolutely HATE being married to the person she has become. I honestly believe that if I wasn't still so physically attracted to her that I would have been the WAS myself!
Man, there are sooooo many beautiful (and NICE too) women out there who would kill to get a crack at you. Go work out at a gym and just watch. I get where you are coming from and I too felt that way once upon a time. But as her lack of concern for my well being grows, the less and less I am attracted to her.
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As you saw in my thread (and thanks for your input!), my "limboland" is just entering the 4th month and since W has been traveling so much, I wonder if I'm being too impatient and not giving DB'ing enough time since we've been apart so frequently since the bomb.
Question is what has SHE done to work on the M at all? Four months IS long enough for her to decide to work on the M. And I mean WORK on the M, not some half a$$ed I won't contact him that much.
I was in limbo for 6 months before getting my fill. Do I KNOW, FOR SURE, I am doing the right thing? No, of course not. But, do I think it's the RIGHT thing to do, YES.
Do you really think if she is willing to work on the M that you pushing is what will cause her to run? Sorry, but if she's gone, she's gone man. Only way to see is to lead.
Go back to my last thread "Gotta Keep Trying 2" and read the last couple of weeks posts. Coach and Greek gave me some great advice.
