GIMA...I am impressed with your resolve and confidence. It seems like your sitch is pretty similar to mine, although there could be an OP involved in my story but I'm not sure if that is an issue with you. Much of what you said resonates quite a bit with me...I am growing very resentful of the constant cold shoulder treatment and absolutely HATE being married to the person she has become. I honestly believe that if I wasn't still so physically attracted to her that I would have been the WAS myself! As you saw in my thread (and thanks for your input!), my "limboland" is just entering the 4th month and since W has been traveling so much, I wonder if I'm being too impatient and not giving DB'ing enough time since we've been apart so frequently since the bomb.