First, don't beat yourself up. We all make mistakes. Just don't do it again, or I'll have to get my big stick out.
Ok. Are you done? Why? Because he pi$$ed you off or hurt you? Really think about this b/c if your "doneness" is the result of emotion, it won't last. Take some time to think it through. If you are done, that's ok. Just make it be for the right reason.
And if you are done, take the lead and start taking apart the M. Not what you want, but you will have control of what happens rather than this:
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I will not be initiating any mediation but know it is forthcoming from H.