The LBH can be friend--ly. He doesn't act mad, pout, etc. But to don't let her try to make you her best friend. See the difference?

Work on detaching this week. It will be hard b/c of the holidays, but you said you were a strong person. I believe you are!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!