Yep, OP's are routinely the exact opposite of the LBS. If I were to list every complete opposite my (x)W's OM and I do not have in common, I'd be here for a while.

I also think it is a good sign, all be it a painful one that your H, like my (x)W is pretty open and volunteering about their OPs. It does show some instant transparency and recognition of their wrong doings in my book.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11